For Wedding Planners
The wedding add-on your couples will thank you for recommending.
Gather is a private social layer for a wedding — a quiet, thoughtful way for guests to meet, match, and feel at ease. It's the kind of detail couples remember, and they remember who recommended it. Every time one of yours signs up, you earn up to $65.
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Why your couples will love it
Couples plan for a year. Their guests spend the night talking to the same people they already know.
Every couple hopes their wedding will bring their worlds together. But between assigned seating, familiar tables, and the natural shyness of strangers, most guests leave having met almost no one new.
Gather gives your couples a quiet, elegant way to fix that — a private layer for the wedding where single guests can discover each other, wave, and start a conversation before the first dance. Couples talk about it for months afterward. So do the guests who met through it.
"Two of our bridesmaids matched with groomsmen through Gather and they're still dating four months later. We joke that we're taking credit for it."
Your role is small. The upside is theirs.
Three steps. No work. You just recommend it.
Planners are busy. Tools that add to your plate don't last. Gather was built so your job is to mention it once — the couple does everything else.
You mention it
Bring it up when you're reviewing welcome bags, signage, or guest-experience extras. Share your unique link or code. That's the whole lift — and it's often the “oh, that's clever” moment in the meeting.
The couple signs up
They pick their tier on our site, enter your code at checkout, and set up the event themselves. No management. No handoff. No ongoing involvement from you.
Guests connect at the event
On the day of, guests scan the QR cards on the tables, build a lightweight profile, and start meeting each other. The couple gets the credit. Their guests get the memory. You get the referral payout.
The Partner Program
Every recommendation is a payout.
A flat fee for every couple who signs up with your link, across every tier. No caps. No clawbacks. No complicated rev-share. You recommend Gather, they buy, you get paid.
Referral link
Or share your code
GATHER-A1B2C3D4
Print-ready QR
Drop into welcome packets or planning binders.
Your dashboard
14
Weddings referred
1,847
Guests reached
312
Matches made
$675
Earned this year
Recent referral
Maya & Jordan
Essential · Oct 12, 2025
+$45
Attributed
Starter
Perfect for a single celebration.
Couple pays
$99one-time
You earn
$25
per referral
Essential
The sweet spot for wedding weekend.
Couple pays
$179one-time
You earn
$45
per referral
Premium
Go all out for the whole weekend.
Couple pays
$279one-time
You earn
$65
per referral
How it works
Set up once. Share your link. Get paid.
Your unique link.
When you create your planner account, we generate a referral link that tracks every couple you send our way. You'll see every sign-up, every wedding attributed to you, and every guest who joined on your dashboard.
Paid monthly.
On the first of each month, we reconcile the previous month's referrals and send your payout via PayPal, Venmo, or direct transfer — whichever is easiest.
No invoices, no paperwork.
We handle the accounting. You handle the recommendation.
From an early partner
"It was the one add-on my couples kept thanking me for. It felt thoughtful in a way nothing else on my shortlist did — and I was getting paid to recommend it. Easiest call I've made all year."
Become a Gather partner planner.
Create your planner account in under two minutes. We'll generate your referral link and dashboard automatically — you can start sharing it with your next couple the same day.
Questions about the partner program? [email protected]